I am Maid of Honor for my best friend. As such I have been helping her plan everything. I have enjoyed planning her Bachelorette Party in a few weeks. I even posted on here about the Harry Potter theme since she is a huge fan! The Bride even bought us these cute bags and HP t-shirts to wear for our outfits!
Yesterday, I met one of the only girl I didn't know in the wedding party. She is helping me add on things to make this party super fun! Well, the Bride told me on our way home that certain activities might happen at the Bachelorette Party. Activities I am not comfortable participating in. I talked with my fiance about it and he is not comfortable either. My fiance is to the point he won't be attending the wedding, won't be attending the wedding, doesn't want them at our house ever, and doesn't want them around our kid ever. Like, he is burn the bridge... done.
Now, I'm super conflicted. I told Bride how my fiance feels. I told her I don't know what to do. Do I attend the party and leave early? Do I attend the wedding? Do I drop her as a friend completely? I feel like maybe my mind is all over the place because I'm still in shock? I have no idea what to do with this new information. This was not the type of event I was planning. Honestly, I feel super uncomfortable now.