I did not want my wedding to be very exepensive becuase I did not want to spend an obsurd amount of money on 8 hours and I wanted to buy practical things with the money such as a new kitchen set or living room furniture. I especially did not feel comfortable asking other people to pay for things that I did not need. I was able to find candle holders at the dollar store as well as free things from mother nature. I have also been browsing the clearance section of many stores and have found a lot of stuff for really great deals. I have not payed full price for a single item at this point in time. Even my dress was half off and off the rack for $980. I was proud of my saving and spending habits so I wanted to show my FMIL what kind of deals I got. I was so excited. She went to tell my FH that she didnt like that I was getting things for cheap and that we should have better quality, more expensive stuff. I was hurt because I thought I was doing a good job and she did not offer to pay for anything that she had been suggesting for us.
Do I say something?
