Hello wedding wire,
Guess who's married now!? ME! Yay! lol
Ok scenario and question: 1 of my best friends asked me at the wedding if she could cashapp me because she didn't have time to stop at a bank. I kinda laughed and said "girl you're fine" in a "I don't even need a gift from you" kind of tone.
(My wedding was Saturday) So this morning (Monday) she cashapped me $100 with a note that this is all she can afford. I really want to decline it but I don't know how to politely do so. She just purchased a house recently, that she's still trying to furnish. Plus, we have a business (with our other besties also) where we pay monthly dues and she hasn't submitted her December payment. I hate that she felt obligated to give me money that she really didnt have. We've been friends for 22 years, I know how she feels about me and she has held me down on numerous occasions. She really didn't have to gift us. But I also know, she is classy and would never want to show up somewhere empty handed.
Any suggestions on how to decline? Or is that just not something I can do?