Deciding on a maid of honor.

I honestly don't think any of their feelings would be hurt, IMO. Having a MOH isn't a "tit for tat" thing where you have to have them as one, just because you were one. And I feel like if you give multiple people that role, it sort of takes away the purpose/meaning. As hard as it may be to choose, i'd just choose the one sister, cousin, or friend that you truly feel closest too. If the decision is too hard, it sounds like picking your sister would be the easier choice. Do any of these women live close to you? Are any of them super busy in their own lives right now? These are things you may want to consider. Even though you shouldn't choose a MOH based off what they can do for you, it doesn't hurt to take your expectations into consideration when making the decision. Also, how many other bridesmaids do you plan to have? If you plan to have like 10, then maybe having 3 MOH's wouldn't be so bad, but if you only plan to have like 4-5, it might seem excessive.

Yeah, I think I'd still try to pick one. I get that they're all close and special in different ways, but I think if I were in your shoes I'd pick one as a maid or matron of honor, but try to make it purely a title - make sure they're all in on making any decisions (on dresses, celebrations, etc.), and communicate with all of them so they feel in the loop

You don't have to choose if you don't want to! I honestly didn't choose so I have a Maid of Honor and a Matron of Honor. My finace also didn't choose so he has two best men. It is completely up to you and what you want!

I don't have any advice, but just wanted to say that my bff in the entire world that i've known for 26 years now and still talk to every day even though we now live 2,000 miles apart, had her sister as maid of honor at her wedding and i felt zero hurt about it. totally a non-issue in my book if you go that route.

I would choose your MOH based on who you feel closest to. You're not obligated to make your sister MOH because of blood relation. If you're really worried about hurting feelings, I like the idea of having only bridesmaids!

Yeah, i totally get that. my bff's sister is a piece of work and they don't really get along that well, but it was her decision and i was just happy to be included at all. i try not to take it personally... i honestly think her sister would have thrown a massive tantrum if it didn't happen, and i think it was just better for everyone this way, haha.