December wedding?

Mine is November 8 th and I can’t lie —- I am a bit concerned. I lm trying to stay positive but then it doesn’t seem like in 220 days everything will be back to “normal” so I’m going to probably think of a plan B date jussssst Incase 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️ So much uncertainty and I hate it !

We’re planning on doing a Vow-Renewal/Anniversary Celebration on December 22nd. We’re definitely considering the possibility of having to cancel it but we’ve decided to wait a few months before making any final decisions. I work as a paramedic/first responder in a major city and I do think a lot of this will be cleared up in a few months as the temperature warms up, however there is a strong possibility that when the weather gets colder again it could make a second wave. Just like what a normal flu would do 😕❤️

I think you definitely have time to wait it out to see how it goes.

I agree with PP - you have time, but I do understand your thinking. I’m there as well since my wedding is in January. This morning, I wrote out my cancellation plan (lost deposits, cancellation deadlines, etc.) and Plan B for my January wedding, just in case. I know that if we have to cancel, we may have to move the wedding from our current destination to my hometown or the city in which I currently live. Writing out a plan made me feel much better and determine my timeline to make a decision. My fiancé and I will proceed as planned for now, but will need to have a serious discussion about whether Plan B is necessary and make a decision in October.

Mine is in January and I have barely thought of the possibility yet because I’m just trying to stay positive. I think I might start to think about postponing if we get to July of this year and things aren’t normal yet. I haven’t reached out to any of the vendors yet because we just don’t know but I will if this goes through May.
My heart goes out to all of the other brides. We will all stick together with support on here and remember that we’re not going through this alone.

Right now, I only see April, May, and June brides postponing right now. We are in August and planning on it having it on our date. I think it is way to early to make any decisions on a December wedding. Id hold off on making any decisions - if you canceled I’m sure some April/May/ June brides would take scoop up your date in a second!

I’m on Dec 6. I’m definitely worried about it, but also full of hope that it will get better.
I don’t think I would make the decision to postpone/cancel until at least October though.

Keep the positive vibes flowing, please, because I'm a May bride that's probably/definitely going to be postponing to October. If we have to postpone again, I'm going to be crushed. Even more importantly - I can't imagine the even greater devastating loss of life if this lasts through December without letting up

My Wedding is mid November and my FH and I have decided to hold off on deciding anything until June/July. I would highly suggest contacting your vendors and re-reading your contracts to ensure that if you do need to postpone you wont be screwed out of money/a vendor!

Honestly, I'm refusing to really think about it right now, our date is Oct 24. My thoughts are if I must have a private ceremony in October because there are still these intense COVID concerns, so be it. We'll plan a vow renewal/celebration/reception later.

I would hold off for the time-being personally, but also keep in mind that they are suspecting a second wave of the virus to hit in winter.