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Amanda
Dedicated May 2019

Day before Mothers Day?

Amanda, on August 11, 2017 at 1:54 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 31

The original date in May I was thinking is already booked. Remaining dates 05/4, I think is still a bit early in the month for my liking, 05/25 is memorial day weekend and I am not putting that travel stress on our families, the last available day is 05/11, the day before mothers day so Im wondering...

The original date in May I was thinking is already booked. Remaining dates 05/4, I think is still a bit early in the month for my liking, 05/25 is memorial day weekend and I am not putting that travel stress on our families, the last available day is 05/11, the day before mothers day so Im wondering if people would think it was rude to have the day before?

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    Master December 2016
    Nancy ·
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    We went to a wedding on Mother's Day about 10 years ago. It was at Disneyland. People did their MD thing and then went to the wedding. Several people with deceased Mothers or Mothers they weren't speaking to, mentioned that it was a pleasant distraction. The couple has since divorced.

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  • Dulce
    Super October 2017
    Dulce ·
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    We went to a wedding that was on Mother's day this year and on top of it, it was FH's birthday too. We didn't mind because we love the bride and groom and their families

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  • Shai
    VIP August 2018
    Shai ·
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    Not at all have your day

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  • Megan
    Devoted January 2018
    Megan ·
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    You could always stick with the 4th if you are a Disney/Star Wars fan. "May the 4th (force) be with you!"

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  • WED18
    July 1993
    WED18 ·
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    Wouldn't bother me at all Smiley smile

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  • Claudia
    Dedicated May 2018
    Claudia ·
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    Ours is May 26. Before we told our florist the exact day she said "I'd just like to warn you, we are booked May 11 & May 12. You might run into a problem there.

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  • Courtney
    Super May 2018
    Courtney ·
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    My wedding is May 12 of this coming year, which is the Saturday before Mother's Day. In avoiding graduations and Memorial Day, it ended up being the perfect date for us too.

    I was also initially worried that this could be a problem with people wanting to be traveling to see their moms. For us, most of our wedding guests (like 80 out of 95 invited) are family, so many would be around their mom anyway if they attend. Some of my relatives that live further away will actually see my grandmom for Mother's Day, so it worked out great.

    As for the flower costs, it'll likely cost more when going to a florist. I'm planning on doing mostly simple bouquets for the bridesmaids, which I'll reuse as centerpieces, and only really splurging on mine.

    Hope that helps!

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    Master December 2016
    Nancy ·
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    Mother's Day is kind of a Hallmark Holiday anyway.

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  • Christina
    Super June 2018
    Christina ·
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    I don't think it's rude. I'm getting married the day before Father's Day. I didn't really think much of it. We are having a brunch that morning, so if any guests were staying over they may skip it since they might have plans

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  • annakay511
    Master July 2015
    annakay511 ·
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    May 11th is my birthday! Smiley smile

    I think it will be fine!

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    Dedicated May 2017
    Noelle ·
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    Yes. Flowers does cost more.. I got married on May 13th 2017, the day before mother's day.. it's not that bad because mother's day isn't the same day every year

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