I'm posting this here because I've met so many wonderful,, supportive people in these forums.. I am supposed to be getting married in a little over a month. This past Friday my dad had a procedure done and the doctors found a tumor in his liver. We are still waiting on biopsy results, but the doctor didn't seem hopeful. Monday my dad wound up back in the hospital with kidney problems from dehydration secondary to extreme nausea. Both of my parents, my brother and I are beside ourselves with worry. My dad seems to have aged 40 years since I last saw him, and he started sobbing when he saw me. My question is this: do I postpone the wedding? I feel so selfish being disappointed by the idea, but how can I have this event when my family is suffering? I haven't talked to my parents about it, my fiance either.