Daddy daughter dance. Two dads. Help!

How about having either one dance where you dance with one half of it then the other or just Have two dances. Nothing wrong with it and i think it's sweet that you are including them both

I think in this situation I would have 2 dances. Give them both their time with you. Unless they are super cool with each other and don't mind sharing a song.

Im in the same boat as you. Im doing one song with both dads. Maybe pick a song about growing as a person or that speaks about them at different points of your life

I danced with both my dad and step-dad. I picked a different song for each dance.

I will be doing two separate dances and they will both walk me down the isle

Walking down isle: step dad walk you the first half and your father walk to your groom and give you away. Father daughter dance: two songs one that it's for your relationship with both men

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Hey @Christina,

FH and I each have four parents (FH has step parents on each side, and I have a biological family and an adoptive family).

I personally feel awkward dancing with both my adoptive father and stepfather-married-to-my-bio-mom. So I'm opting to not have a traditional father-daughter dance. Not sure if my FH will dance with both his moms or not; we haven't discussed that yet.

If both fathers are important to you, I would opt for two separate songs.. maybe choosing shorter songs or asking the DJ to shorten the song for you so that the song/dance doesn't end abruptly.

On an unrelated note: I am deciding between three options: both fathers walking me down the aisle, FH and I walking down together or I walk by myself. (The tradition of having the father of the bride give away his daughter stems from a. daughter as property to give away, and b. handing off said property to the FIL to make "said property" doesn't run away.

I have the same issue because my parents got divorced when I was older (16) so I did have a life with my dad and later on my step dad came (I was 19) and I love him to death. My thing is, my dad is going to be VERY VERY hurt when I tell him I want both of them to walk me but I won't budge.

As far as the dance, I'm not sure. It's such a touchy subject that I'd rather not think about it yet.