Originally, when my FH and I created our guest list, we had around 80 people. This is what I've been basing all of our budget estimates on. However, we went back and added some people that we had forgotten about, and now we are at over 100 people. This is obviously going to be much more expensive than I had originally budgeted.
Here's the thing. Over half of the guests are my family, and although I'm sure some of them won't be able to make it, they can't be cut from the list. My FH only has 5 family members he's inviting. The rest of the guests are mutual friends. There are only a handful of people he's inviting whom I've never met (and whom he hasn't seen in years).
Anyway, I guess what I'm saying is that I feel really bad asking him to cut those friends from the list, but we're going to end up going way over budget if we keep the list that long. Also, my FH and I are very comfortable with our communication so I know we will come to a resolution together. I just feel bad cutting anyone, honestly.(Obviously we have not sent invites yet so no one would know if they were cut.)
Anyone else trying to keep their wedding small? Did you have to cut people from your original guest list? How did you decide who?