FH grandpap, who was supposed to be a grooms men, let use know last night that he won’t be coming to the wedding. Well really he told FHs dad; no explanation as to why. Now, FH brother, who is also supposed to be a grooms men hasn’t answered any of his texts or calls regarding the wedding. I’m about to say screw it to the whole damn bridal party.
He was supposed to have 4 groomsmen ( one can’t make it down because of the military; not mad at him) and now 1 has backed out, 1 not responding to any messages, and the other is my litter brother.
Option one is just have FH sister (already supposed to be a bridesmaid) and my little brother on his side and my MOH and sister on mine. I would have to cut one bridesmaid to make it even, but I know for sure she will understand if I call her and tell her why. If we went with option one then FH sister and MOH would both be in bridesmaid dresses and my sister and brother would be in the “groomsmen” attire ( my sister is gay and doesn’t even like dresses so she’d be thrilled).
Option 2; just cut the entire bridal party. From talking to my sister and MOH they both would understand why, they’d still be getting ready with me and my MOH would still do a speech.
Me and FH just don’t know what to do.
Bridesmaids are supposed to order dresses by end of may so we need to figure it out ASAP.
Any advice? At all?
