Custom Veil

Hello fellow brides!
I said yes to my dress about 3 weeks ago and while it’s not set to arrive and ship back to me until July, I’m trying to figure out my veil situation.

My dress is what the designer calls “cashmere” colored (faint, light grey-white) with white beaded roses all over. My conundrum is this: what color veil should I actually purchase since these things come in every thing from “diamond white” to “ivory” and “antique”? Also, does anyone have any recommendations on where I can purchase or have my veil custom embroidered in either California or Florida? I’d like to have my grandfather’s favorite flowers added in his memory.