Hey everyone! Thank you in advance to those who take the time to read this craziness!
I'm on here giving an update to this foul situation with my fiance's eldest aunt. In my previous post a few weeks ago, I was explaining that FH's aunt was doing everything in her power to try to get FMIL not to attend our wedding. She felt that FMIL was crazy, stopping their others sisters from coming because apparently no one wants to be around FMIL. This aunt then called my fiance's grandpa (whom we don't we even talk to) telling him that she gave us $500 dollars, so what is his contribution going to be. Like literally begging for donations on our behalf without our consent, like we're desperate or something. She's sent vicious emails including texts between herself and FMIL talking about things would make your stomach turn. I can't even begin to repeat these things. She's used demeaning words to FH (mind you, she's usually messaging me) saying things like "FH has to stop acting like a lost little boy and talk to his mom about her behavior, he has been trained by his mom to ask the same money for people (btw, this aunt was practically BEGGING us to help and we eventually gave in and accepted $500) she's threatened to call the cops at our wedding if FMIL so much looks at her in a certain way.... anyway. After all that mess a few weeks ago, we decided the course of action we should take is to give her the money back to get her to shut her trap. Though, FH has been ignoring her and waiting for the right time to tell her what's on his mind. That all changed yesterday. Last night, she texted me saying "I've left a dozen messaged for FH and they have all gone unanswered. Andrea, tell FH that this is his last scam with me." Scam? Scam? Really? This woman can wipe her behind with $500 dollars. What's the scam? Who's trying to scam her? Because we don't want to do her bidding? Because we don't want to tell her anymore wedding details? Because she's not getting her way? She's NUTS! FH had enough. He decided not to call her, because he knows she wouldn't of answered to be petty. He sent a simple text to her, summarizing all the wrongdoings that she did, and that we will not be taking her honeymoon vacation that she was going to pay for us, and that we are offering the $500 dollars back, since we feel uncomfortable keeping it when all of these feuds we have NOTHING to do with are taking place. It was a very simple, straight to the point respectful text. Today she messages me saying "Hi Andrea, I've resolved the situation with FH. Thanks." Uh, correction, we've resolved the situation with YOU. It was YOU that was the problem. Then, a few minutes ago, FH turns his phone on and sees one of the most idiotic messages from her. "I think that this message is not coming from you (somehow she thinks FMIL had something to do with it) and she said she will accept the $500 dollars back and uninvite herself from the wedding. I hope you and Andrea have a nice life. In terms of the honeymoon funds, I will give money to those who are "grateful and kind hearted." So FH calmly asked for her email and he has intentions of sending the money back in a few days. Crazy stuff, huh???
Anyway, since she's not "coming" anymore, think we may need some security? FH brought up the fact that since she lives in a town about 5 hours away, she may actually call the cops and try to convince them that there's something happening at our wedding that they need to investigate. I told FH I doubt she'd do that.. but when I got to thinking, I'm not so sure... What do all of you think about this situation?
