Coworkers

No protocol, it's totally up to you!

If you are friends outside of work or have worked there for many years all together, I would invite those on your team. If you aren't close or won't be in five years time, I wouldn't.

I would say either invite them all or invite none. If you just invite 1 or 2, then all of the others will inadvertently hear of your wedding and feel left out.

I didn’t invite anyone from my current teaching job, I’ve only been there 18 months and I think it’d make things awkward for those not invited. Plus if they actually came there wouldn’t be enough subs. I invited former coworkers if I hung out with them outside of work.

I think it depends, but is probably best to invite all or none, unless maybe if you are really close to 1 or 2. I only really wanted a few of my coworkers at my wedding but that would have caused so much drama so I invited them all, about 15 people. FH on the other hand is inviting none, although he just started his current job in August.

I’m also in education (a teacher) and I’m only inviting those who I have a relationship with that surpasses our work relationship. It’ll be about 10 staff members (and their husbands/boyfriends) out of our 30ish staff members. I’d just go with those you see/hang out with outside of work (maybe your 5 person team and any teachers you’re super close to?)

You should only invite those you want at your wedding. You are definitely not required to invite your co-workers.

I agree with the sentiment of all or none when it's a small group such as 5.