Hey guys!
My fiance and I are getting married in February, so I'm just finishing up my invitation list. We both have divorced parents and gigantic families, so I'm already maxed out on how many people we can invite. I'm to the point where I've put past college roommates on my B list (and I lived with them for two years in 2017 and 2018). I've had numerous coworkers ask what date it is so they can plan vacations. I didn't have intentions of inviting any of my coworkers, (even the closest few) just to avoid drama. I'm not sure how to let them know that I have limited space and that they aren't getting invites. Quite honestly, I don't like seeing them at work, let alone at my wedding. I just don't know the polite way of going about this. There are about 20 individuals plus spouses that would have to be invited and I just don't have the room. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.