Coworker bridesmaid

I wouldn’t ask someone to be a bridesmaid that you haven’t hung out with outside of work. I feel like this is a recipe for disaster because you really don’t know her THAT well, and this may reveal a side of her you didn’t know about and could ruin your relationship. When is your wedding? I’d recommend just trying to make plans with her outside of work and getting to be closer friends and if you do end up getting closer then ask her later on

If she was one of the first you called and you like the idea of having her, I would ask! The worst she could say is no.

I asked my coworker whom I’m really close too at work be my bridesmaid and it’s going well and we never hung out outside of work before. (We’ve been work bestirs for 2years now) The only reason me and her don’t hang out is because I live 45-60 minutes from my work and she lives next to our work plus I see her 5 days a week.


You do what you feel is right and best for you!

Many people are very different at work, maybe more upbeat than they are when they're not being paid to be nice. There are also significant time and financial commitments, and it sounds like she has a lot on her schedule already. It might be worth hanging out outside of work a few times, even just going to lunch together during the workday if you can't find time otherwise.