I’ve postponed my wedding twice now and just cancelled my new date. We attended a wedding this past weekend with 125 people present. The ballroom was HUGE, it’s usual capacity is 800 and the dance floor was equally as huge. Tables were square and very spaced out; I was at least 6 feet away from the couple next to us. But then the music starts and the drinks are flowing and for a few hours, everyone forgets COVID exists. 2 days later, the bride and groom both positive. Me and my fiancé as well and others from the bridal party and family.
I spent months saying “once I go to this wedding I’ll feel better about my wedding”. This wedding showed me that I can have my wedding but until this mess is over, I don’t want it. This decision was heartbreaking even more than the decision to postpone. But, I didn’t cry this time, because as heartbreaking as it is, it’s not nearly as heartbreaking as the thought of risking my family, my grandma and my friends to have a party.
I realized what’s important here is getting married regardless of how, when or where. My fiancé and I are going to have a small ceremony with just our parents and we are very excited about it. We hope to plan an event in a year or so when this mess is all gone and we can safely celebrate.
I know there are many brides who did the same thing, but I know there are many brides who are still on the fence.
I’m here to caution those brides who are on the fence. Take it from someone who got COVID from attending a wedding and now realizing how irresponsible it was to attend the wedding; we knew what we were risking.
I also want to wish those brides who do move forward all the very best. However, by accepting the risk, please understand your responsibility as an event host to let ALL your guests know if you or any guest in attendance tests positive after attending. This particular bride and groom chose only to tell their bridal party and immediate family and asked everyone not to share; which In my opinion was wrong. I ended up telling a close friend who was in attendance and they ended up testing positive. I understand the concern on perception but, we all have to do our part in trying to minimize the spread.
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