Hi all reaching out because my wedding is July 25 and each day I get more and more discouraged. However I am creating a Plan B that is lovely. My big day was supposed to be in Napa but if we have to postpone it then my fiancé and I will be eloping to Lake Tahoe with only a few friends. I do not want my family to come to the elopement. They have been very toxic through the wedding planning process and I don’t want their critical energy there. This is my day and it’s about me and my fiancé and I just hope everyone understands that. Everyone will get to be at the big wedding when it happens so I am hoping that no one will be offended about Tahoe. Do you guys have suggestions on how I could word this to my parents? How do I let them know that I’m doing this without them and without pissing them off and then having to deal with that? My life is less than desirable... I have chronic pain and can’t work and am not happy. I am trying to create this happy peaceful day and I’m struggling with not feeling bad about it. So what do I say so they accept it and don’t make me feel bad? Oh and also when do I tell them!? They think we are just gonna go to the courthouse that day. Thanks guys. If you have a plan b I would love to hear it.
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