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Covid-bride.. i don't know what to do! Any advice?

Breanna, on March 30, 2020 at 10:06 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 5

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Hi, I am of course one of the brides affected by miss corona herself. My dream wedding was April 24th 2020 and now I have to postpone

My question is, If we were to still get married on my dream date and then plan the wedding/party for later in the year..Does it still feel special doing a ceremony at the wedding for everyone to witness? Especially for my dad to walk me down the aisle, I don't want him feeling robbed if I am already "married."

Is or has anyone gone through this?

I am so heart broken and just don't know what to do.

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Latest activity by Amy, on April 7, 2020 at 9:24 AM

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Soon To Be Mrs. Blain · on March 30, 2020 at 10:18 PM
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Would you be able to file your license ahead of time?
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Breanna · on March 30, 2020 at 10:26 PM
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I'm not 100% sure, as of now courthouses are going to open april 13th.. so I hope so
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Soon To Be Mrs. Blain · on March 30, 2020 at 11:18 PM
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That’s awesome, I’m excited for you!
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Maria · on March 31, 2020 at 8:39 AM
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I'm so sorry you are going through this! I don't have personal experience but I know a couple that changed their 400 person wedding down to immediate family only (less than 10 people - parents & siblings). They still had the "typical" wedding in a church but everyone was spread out. I believe her dad walked her down the aisle because they had both been social distancing. Afterward, guests greeted them with a car horn parade from the parking lot (stayed in cars from a distance). The couple shared that the day was more special and intimate than they had ever planned. I believe they are having the reception with all their guests a year out from their wedding date.
I guess I would try to determine whether getting married now on that date is more important or having all your guests present at the actual ceremony is more important. I think it would still be special to "redo" the ceremony later because it will be a totally different experience and all your guests will be happier for you than ever!
I would also double check that you can still get a marriage license for an April wedding with all of the closures happening. Good luck!
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Amy · on April 7, 2020 at 9:24 AM
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Hi Breanna,
I'm so sorry that you're going through this, and I know the uncertainty of everything is stressful. If it helps at all, you are definitely not alone!
I want to echo Maria's comments above. My opinion is that the legal piece of a wedding (i.e., getting and filing your license) would not diminish the experience of a future ceremony for your family and friends. I don't expect your dad will be any less excited to walk you down the aisle; however, if it's a concern, perhaps you could ask him directly. It doesn't hurt to brainstorm options with your family and friends. In the end, you should do whatever feels right for you.
We've gathered tips and resources from WeddingWire here: COVID-19 Wedding Support Central. You'll find articles like this one: What to Do About Your Wedding During the Coronavirus Pandemic.
Hope this helps!
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