covid Bride - Bridal shower/ bachelorette

My COVID brides who got married legally last year and are having a reception this year - did your bridal party throw you a shower/ bachelorette? Last year, I was supposed to get married in August, and we decided to still get married in 2020 and have our reception as planned in 2021. At the time (last year), my maid of honor asked if I would want to wait until this year to have a shower or do a virtual shower. I said I thought it would be better to wait. My now husband and I also started trying to have a baby around the time this was all happening, and we were blessed to find out we were pregnant the week of our wedding in 2020. Fast forward to this year, I had a zoom baby shower and we welcomed our daughter in April. No one in my bridal party has made any attempt or asked if I wanted a shower or a bachelorette party. I understand we did things a little unconventional, but we were dealt a very unconventional situation with COVID!! At this point, a month and a half out from the reception, I get a shower isn't happening, but am I asking too much to text them and see if we could have a day trip as a "bachelorette"? Other COVID brides, are you expecting/ having bridal showers if you had a ceremony or legally got married last year, but doing a reception/vow renewal this year? I am feeling hurt/ resentful, and I'm trying to figure out the best way to move forward.