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Covid-19: How to word Thank You's

Ally, on July 29, 2020 at 7:42 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 6

Due to COVID-19, pretty much all of my original wedding plans went out the window. We postponed our original date, then had to cancel our rescheduled ceremony and reception a week before due to another change in restrictions in our area.


With that being said, I did have a small outdoor bridal shower at the beginning of July with the intent of those who attended were going to also be coming to my wedding. Since we suddenly had to cancel our planned wedding, many of those people did not get to attend our mini ceremony/reception of 30 people (backyard ceremony and dinner for immediate family & wedding party). We are planning on having a vow renewal and reception next summer and inviting everyone that we originally wanted to spend our day with.


Obviously, I should send a Thank You to anyone that attended the bridal shower or the mini wedding ceremony. I'm just curious as to how I should phrase the Thank You's for the family members that came to the bridal shower but were unable to attend the wedding. I want to make sure that they know that we will be having a reception next year and that they will be invited to that and that I'm sorry that they weren't able to come to the small ceremony that we had.


TL;DR : Had a bridal shower, but had to cancel big wedding and only had a small ceremony for immediate family and wedding party. Some of the bridal shower attendees were not invited to the small ceremony. How to phrase thank you notes to people that came to bridal shower but couldn't come to small ceremony. We will have a reception and vow renewal next year.

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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    Have you looked on Zola? They have alot of examples of things dealing with COVID you may be able to piggy back from there!

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    VIP July 2017
    Becky ·
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    I would compose a nice thank you note and then add a couple lines about hoping they'll be able to come to your non-covid renewal next year.

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  • MOB So Cal
    January 2019
    MOB So Cal ·
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    Based on your description, it sounds like you're talking about a relatively small number of thank you notes, so especially given the circumstances, I'd write personal, handwritten thank you notes and include a line or two addressing the challenging circumstances and your future plans.

    An example might be along the lines of: "Dear Aunt Helen, Thank you so much for attending my bridal shower and for the lovely salad serving set. We use it nearly everyday and it is a happy reminder of your love and support. As you know, with all the changes this has been a difficult time and I can't tell you how much my bridal shower brought me some much cherished "wedding normalcy" -- thank you again for coming. Our private ceremony clearly wasn't what we originally wanted or planned, but it was beautiful and we are glad to finally be married! (I should have the photographer's pictures to share with you soon.) However, we cannot wait until we are able to celebrate with you in person next summer at the vow renewal and party we're so looking forward to. We love you so much and can't wait to see you! Keep safe, and give our love to the rest of the family. Always, Ally

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  • VIP August 2020
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    I'm currently writing similar notes. Everyone knew about our plans before the shower, but other than that it's essentially the same situation.


    Dear [Name],Thank you so much for coming to my shower, it was really nice to see you. [Mention something that happened at the shower.] We really appreciated the [gift] it will be perfect when [situation/how you'll use it]. We look forward to seeing you at our wedding reception next year, or sooner if it becomes safe to be around people before then.Thanks again!
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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    I love this wording! You don't need to go into detail about all of your wedding decisions, just thank them for the gift and let them know you can't wait to celebrate with them once things finally turn around!

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  • VIP August 2020
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    Thank you!
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