I am trying not to stress but we postponed our wedding from September 13, 2020 to May 16th 2021 naively thinking that things will be back to normal by that time but it does not look that way. We are keeping the new date however my future MIL is fearful about the virus as she is going to be 80 years old and has COPD and other health issues and I totally accept that and my FH seems to be okay with zooming her in as well. I want to be prepared for a hybrid wedding as we have her and others who may be uncomfortable or moving the whole thing outside (weather permitting).
Our ceremony will be held outside and we can have her come to the ceremony if it's held outside (weather permitting) . We live in Colorado and May could have lovely weather for the most part but we have had some snow storms. We are in our 50's so I am past the fairytale wedding of my 20's and 30's so I am okay with a smaller hybrid wedding too as long as I marry the love of my life. My question is how would I set up a zoom to include my future MIL and others without having to hire a videographer? Do you have other ideas about making it festive like providing cake or food? I love to hear ideas.