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Courthouse Wedding

Jhanelle, on March 27, 2015 at 4:29 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 11

My fiance and I plan to have a Courthouse Wedding on a Friday with a reception on a Sunday. We plan to have our closest family members and a few friends a our "Ceremony" . Can we invite the rest of our family and friends to our reception? Is it proper to even have a reception even though we didn't have a "traditional" wedding?

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Latest activity by Celia Milton, on March 27, 2015 at 7:26 PM
  • Adoretamm
    Master May 2016
    Adoretamm ·
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    I would think so, my FH and I considered a courthouse wedding to save money but his grandfather said he'd marry us because he's a minister. Also because our venue includes our ceremony area. So I would think yes.

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  • Promike
    Master September 2015
    Promike ·
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    YES!!! You can invite whoever you want to a reception as long as you can afford to host them properly! A reception is purposeful for this exact reason!

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  • FutureMrsCrane
    Master October 2015
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    You can absolutely still have a reception for your wedding. I don't think it's an improper wedding at all; it's what you wanted. Etiquette kind of gets sticky when inviting people to the reception that weren't invited to the actual ceremony. I personally wouldn't do it, but it's ultimately your decision!

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  • chloe
    Expert July 2015
    chloe ·
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    My sister and husband eloped and did a courthouse wedding in February and have a reception with all the family & friends planned for June. i dont see a problem with it!

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  • purplekitten
    Master October 2015
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    Yes, you can invite people to the reception that were not invited to the ceremony.

    You cannot do the opposite. It's very rude to invite someone to the ceremony but not the reception.

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  • tucker052315
    VIP May 2015
    tucker052315 ·
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    Yes you are fine. It would only be bad if you invited them to the wedding ceremony and not to the reception.

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  • JamieLynn
    Master June 2016
    JamieLynn ·
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    Absolutely! Have a celebration of your marriage and invite whoever you want to the reception.

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  • Genny
    Master May 2015
    Genny ·
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    That is what FH and I are doing. We wanted to get married on our 10 yr anniversary (a tuesday) we also wanted to do a very secular ceremony which would have caused issues with the family. We thought this was easier but we still wanted to have a party to celebrate with family and friends! We're still doing a blessing from my grandmother to appease some people.

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  • Emily
    Master May 2014
    Emily ·
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    Sure! It is a party to celebrate your recent marriage. Just make sure the invitation wording clear so that people understand they are invited to a reception only and not a wedding.

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  • Ally
    Master October 2016
    Ally ·
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    Yep. My close friend got married in Florida and had the ceremony in town. I was only invited to the ceremony. It was great! She worded the invitation as 'You are NOT invited to the wedding! etc etc etc"

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Sure! We do this all the time!

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