Hey everyone,
I have a problem with my guess list. We are paying for our wedding and my guess list is 60ppl. That is all our budget will allow and my fiancé does not believe in "spending our entire saving on 1 day where people will have opinions on what worked and didn't." I was thinking because so many people like to be invited when I have things going on, that I wanted to have a after wedding celebration for those who weren't invited to the wedding. I'm just thinking and researching but would like some help. I am a Christian and pray about most decisions but this is a struggle. I had a birthday celebration in Dec and had to unfriend a lot of people due to their reactions like "why was I not invited" and "thought we were better friends" an so forth. I don't like negativity and it bothers me. So I was thinking to avoid such a headache about our wedding, I could do this instead but not for gifts, just to celebrate. Need help or ideas. I am just thinking at this point, not planning anything yet. As far as budget, it's easier to spend $100 on food at a backyard BBQ and cooking for a lot of people, because I'm from the Caribbean and know how to stretch food well. So it wouldn't break the bank to celebrate that way. Let me know what you think.
Thanks
