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Couple Shower invites before Wedding Invites?

Elizabeth, on March 15, 2021 at 5:25 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 5

My fiancé and I have decided not to send out Save-the-dates. His family is planning a couple shower to be in May, but do we need to send out the wedding invitations before the wedding shower invitations? Our wedding is at the beginning of September 2021.

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Latest activity by Melody, on March 16, 2021 at 6:40 PM
  • Stacey
    Super May 2021
    Stacey ·
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    I don't think your invitations need to be sent out necessarily. You just need to make sure that everyone on the shower's guest list will 100% be receiving an invitation whenever you do send them.

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    Judith ·
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    No. Sometimes shower go out first. This is why, though a shower hostess or group choose how many they will host at the shower ( budget) and what categories ( friends from school only, all friends, friends and family), they check with the guest list to make sure only those invited to the wedding are invited to the shower.
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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    As long as your guest list is final, you are fine. The wedding invites are sent 6-8 weeks before wedding regardless.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    Exactly what Stacey said!! 👍

    You don't need to send out wedding invitations first, just make sure everyone getting a shower invite will be getting a wedding invite later!


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  • M
    Expert April 2021
    Melody ·
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    As long as the guests for the shower are all being invited to the wedding, you can send them out whenever! FH and I just finished sending out wedding invites about a week ago and my mom started sending out bridal shower invites on Saturday. It wasn't intentional, just how things worked out logistically. My mom and sister(MoH) are co-hosting with my sister doing the majority of the planning. She's an accountant, so in super busy season right now and has been planning around her work schedule. If she hadn't been in busy season we probably would have had sent out the shower invites first.

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