Corsages/Bouts for Parents, who else?

Traditionally here Aunts and Uncles would be included in this as well.

IMO, it doesn't really hurt to give them to the siblings. It can be a nice way to include them and make them feel honored since they aren't in the BP. And if it's only 2 extra people then I would go ahead and give them to the siblings-in-law as well. Personally, in that spot if my SIL got married and my DH got a bout and his cousin, etc and I didn't I would feel like they were saying I wasn't family.

We are giving them to parents, grandparents, and the officiant. We are not including siblings (I'm an only child, he has one brother and one sister, both are married) in the count for bouts and corsages.

Just members of the wedding party, parents, grandparents and officiant (if you are inclined). Everyone else (ie family) is an option. but an unnecessary added expense.

D'oh, i had totally forgotten about the officiant! Thanks for reminding me on that one, that might have been awkward.

Just fyi, none of these are required! I've very rarely seen bouts on parents and never on aunts n uncles. We're not doing bouts or corsages at all, in fact- they're awkward to get on, scratchy, often lopsided, and wilt faster than anything else. Plus they feel too "prom" to me. We'll do pocket squares for the groomsmen and let the families dress themselves.

I got flowers for bridal party, parents, grandma (there's only 1 grandparent left on both sides), our readers and our greeters.

We are only getting corsages for our mothers and my grandmother, not for siblings or aunts and uncles. (Our fathers and grandfathers are deceased).

We are giving bouts and corsages to FH parents, FH grandparents, and my brother (who is walking me down the aisle). We are doing Pin corsages for the ladies, not the wristlet ones. They are going to be simple ... a few small roses.

We had them for bridal party, parents (DHs mother didn't want one though and my mother asked for flowers for her hair instead), my grandmother (only grandparent), and my brothers. DHs siblings were both in the wedding party. We didn't give them out to my SIL or my brothers' daughters. No one felt left out though, what we did is what is typically done in my family.

We also had wrist corsages for our reader and MC (very close friends).

I think we are going to do my parents, FH's mom (father deceased), his grandparents, and my grandma (gpa deceased). Than maybe something for flower girl, ring bearer, and out officiant

I would talk to your florist about budget. That might determine who gets one. We are skipping all together.

I think the main message is that, like most things, it's up to you! If your budget isn't a problem, then by all means get flowers for all of your BP, parents, grandparents and all of those involved. The only 'rule' I'd say is to treat all fairly. If one Mom gets - then all moms get, etc. It's more about your vision and whether or not this is something important to you and FH.

I'm not having a wedding party. My 3 brothers & ours dads are getting boutonniere. Our grandmas moms and his sister are getting corsages

If you have godparents, they usually get one in my circle.

I don't want to do corsages or boutonnieres. Is that weird? Will people even notice? I feel like its just an added expense that's going to get thrown away at the end of the night anyways.

Groomsmen have their pocket squares and bridesmaids have their bouquet.

I was only going to do the officiant and bouts I was only giving those to groom BM GM and my two brothers that are walking me down the aisle..I didn't know people gave corsages out? My MOH and BM was just getting the Bouquet......

We are actually only giving them to parents and grandparents. My sister is my MOH and my fiance's brother is his best man. I'm not giving my brother a bout, and his sister in law isn't getting a corsage.

We're just keeping it simple. I don't think our siblings expect a corsage or bout.

We're doing bloominous diy flowers, and its only $5 extra to add another bout kit, so its not so bad. If I was using a florist, I'd probably not bother with the extra expense.

@Heather - We're only giving the corsages to female family members not in the bridal party. My sister is my MoH, so she wont have one - just her bouquet.