corsages & boutonnieres - who gets them?

Everyone that you've mentioned is a family member. I don't see why not, honestly. Maybe you can have the florist make the corsages for your mothers a little more elaborate than your aunts, so that they're a little different from the rest. Also, you could have your aunts wear them pinned, versus on the wrist, or vice versa, which will make them different from the mothers' corsages.

FWIW, I gave our whole immediate family bouts and corsages, even my brother and sister. No biggie. Do it if it's in your heart.

I personally would say no corsagse (only cause i hate things on my wrists...i dont wear watches or bracelettes) and just do boutonnieres for all. As for your aunts, they might get offended, I feel like mine would if I gave 1 aunt one and not another. Maybe you could give all aunts/uncles one and a different color for the closer ones or more fancier ones to them (like plain red rose for regular aunts and then red rose with babys breath for important aunt)

What if you did corsages for the two aunts and maybe a small bouquet for the moms? So both are honored but there is still a bit of difference.

What do your moms think of this?

Our moms each had small hand tied bouquets. My dad and the groomsmen had bouts. The bridal party and I had bouquets. No corsages at all.

Flowers are one of those things where you really can do it however you want.

We did a wedding in November with 29 bouts and 10 corsages. They gave them to the people closest to them. Generally, both moms and all grandmothers get corsages (basically, any female who is going to be escorted to her seat immediately prior to the wedding processional). Bouts go to all male members of the wedding party, both fathers, and all grandfathers. A cost saving option, if you have a lot of women you want to honor but don't want to go the corsage route, is to give each lady a long stemmed rose to carry as she is escorted down the aisle.

My mom and his mom are getting a corsage but it will be pinned to their dress. The Groom, GM's, Ushers & dad's will be wearing boutonnieres.

We're doing corsages for our moms, my grandmothers, and my fiance's sister-in-law (she's escorting his grandfather down the aisle). We're doing boutonnieres for his brothers (groomsmen), his dad, his grandfather, my grandfather, and my brother (escorting my grandmother). My sister has a bouquet because she's a bridesmaid. I'm not sure if our officiant, my godmother, would prefer a corsage or a boutonniere; probably a bout because it won't get in the way as much during the ceremony.