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Bernadette
Just Said Yes September 2021

Coronavirus Mayhem

Bernadette, on March 18, 2020 at 5:13 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 12
Hello! So, my wedding is set for September 26th of 2020, and honestly, I feel if all goes well, it can go well! But, my brother called me stupid for continue my plans, and honestly, I feel discouraged..

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Latest activity by Bernadette, on March 26, 2020 at 9:29 PM
  • Nefetera
    VIP March 2015
    Nefetera ·
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    Why he called you stupid?
    & no I think you'll be fine...
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  • Bernadette
    Just Said Yes September 2021
    Bernadette ·
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    He thinks there is more to worry about than my wedding, tho i agree, i keep positive by planning out my wedding..
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    Dedicated September 2019
    Cardioqueen ·
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    Of course is more to worry about your wedding, but keeping yourself busy by planning your wedding so you have something to look forward to is as good a coping strategy as any other. It’s not dumb.
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  • Allie
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    Allie ·
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    I think in this kind of time, you need to be planning so you can stay positive!! It’s something happy that can at least take your mind off things for just a little bit. I’m still going to work nonessentially while basically the entire state is shut down, so I keep telling my FH that when we are together at the end of the day we just need to continuously make each other laugh because my anxiety is through the roof and I’m so scared. So continue on!
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    Devoted August 2020
    Tina ·
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    This time with everything happening the plans keeps our minds at ease. So keep planning.


    So keeping mind on something else, smile and laugh is all we can really do.
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  • Jessica
    Dedicated July 2020
    Jessica ·
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    You are not stupid for continuing to plan for your wedding. I’m doing the same! My own FH said that now is not the time to plan for our wedding but I told him it’s keeping me happy and distracted. He hasn’t said anything to me about it since. If it makes you happy during these times, keep doing it!
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  • Jasmine
    Devoted May 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    That was very rude of him, keep your head up and tell him to mind his business
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  • Kelsey
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    Kelsey ·
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    That is very rude of him. Wedding planning has been a distraction for me with everything going on. Do I feel bad for what is going on, yes. But I won't stop planning and living life because of it.

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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    That’s rude. My best friend is getting married only a week or less before you and she hasn’t cancelled her wedding either. Late September is def still far enough for this to hopefully blow over
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  • Katharine
    Expert July 2021
    Katharine ·
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    That's every rude of your brother. I'm sure it's probably rooted in fear, but that still doesn't excuse his rudeness. There is nothing wrong with what you're doing.

    I'm scheduled to get married in July and I haven't postponed yet either. I'm waiting until closer to before I make that call. Currently, it's looking like my area should be cleared by then (WA/OR). Unless our venue is shutdown or there are still group # restrictions when our wedding gets closer, we are planning to go ahead. Even if we end up postponing the party and official ceremony, we'll be going to a courthouse or having a friend officiate on our date instead.

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  • Sindy
    Just Said Yes September 2020
    Sindy ·
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    We have the same wedding date September 26 2020 baby yayyyyy
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  • Bernadette
    Just Said Yes September 2021
    Bernadette ·
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    Awee! Yay!!! Me and my FH chose that date because it’s 3 days after our 7 year anniversary 😭😂
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