Hey all--
Haven't seen a ton of info on this subject in the forums...so really interested to get everyone's opinions. I have a HUGE family....we were inviting approx 480 people to our wedding, hoping that approx. 350 would RSVP yes. Our date is August 29th, 2020, and I know that a wedding of that magnitude is just not going to be feasible.
SO....that leaves us with a decision to make (hoping to make it by at latest EOM). I keep going back and forth, so hoping other brides can give their input.
Option 1: Get married now with immediate family & bridal party (approx 60 people) & host a HUGE party next year (8.21.21) as a vow renewal ceremony & party.
pros: intimate setting for ceremony, then larger party style setting next year.
cons: close friends not in bridal party will not be present for ceremony, will we still be excited 1 year from now to have a party? is a vow renewal at 1 year weird?....i think so, but also with coronavirus, I think a lot of couples will be doing that.
Option 2: Push everything out a year and have closest to what we have been planning (ceremony, reception, bridal party etc.)
Pros: We get the wedding we planned pretty much from start to finish with the exception of a few things.
Cons: We won't be married this year, Coronavirus could come back next summer or restrictions could still be in place if no vaccine is found within the year.
Option 3: Get married now with immediate family and bridal party (approx 60 people) and be done with it!
Pros: intimate setting for ceremony, saves a shitload of money
Cons: No close friends, extended family members, not the layout of the day we wanted, not really a "fun" wedding.
honestly, either way, we don't want to live stream our wedding. That to me seems so impersonal. I'd rather just keep it quiet and small and explain to the rest of the guests what happened, or go all out.
Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!