Church Donations

I really have no experience with this, but I'd ask other churches in the area and officiants, how much they charge, and take it from there. You could go a little lower than the average, they obviously want to help you out, since you are a member, but it'll give you an idea of what they would be earning.

You could find out what they charge for non-members, and take it from there.

We are paying the church we will be using for the ceremony $100.00

We made a donation to the catholic church we're getting married in. I think it was $300 + extra fee for the organist. I say you should definitely give some kind of a donation to the church. The pastor may not take a personal donation, but simply want the funds given to the church if you offered. Give what you can afford and what seems right as a thank you for use of the space.

I believe so, but, if you're not 100%, just call the church and ask.

I'd do at least $300 to the church.

Our Catholic church was $1000 not including paying the priest or musicians.

If My church didn't charge I'd donate somewhere around $300-500.

My church has a recommended donation of $350.

Our church charges $450.... thats for Ceremony musicians, Ceremony coordinator, janitor who opens and closes (for Rehearsal and Ceremony) as well as cleans up... And also use of their banquet room for our Rehearsal Dinner...

We are also going to give the Pastor a Donation as well!

I honestly heard the typical donation is between 500-1000. We're using a venue, but it I were to use a church i' d probably donate at least 500. ETA: It may also vary by location. I would compare locally first (:

We have to provide 2 alter decorations as well as a boquet for the mother mary. Pay the organist and then make a donation.

Look at it as a tithe - can you do 10% of your total wedding budget?

Our required "donation" is $1200 plus several hundred dollars to the music director. Then we have to pay the priest from my home church to marry us because the priests at the church we are getting married at weren't available. All in all roughly 2k. But that seems very high to me - I think $500 is a good starting point.

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My church had a list of the prices for things for non-members and members. The price for the officiant for members was listed as "at couple's discretion", but we're probably going to pay the non-member fee.

I would give at least half to 3/4 of the suggested non-member fee. If you can swing it, you should give the full amount.

300-400 at least. It is very expensive to have weddings and pay the maintenance people, musicians, lights, wear and tear.