After seeing Rebecca's wedding photos, I have to ask the Jewish brides: Are you having people hold your chuppah or are you having it stationary? A non-Jewish friend of mine was recently a chuppah-holder at a friend's wedding and she did not appreciate the honor whatsoever. She complained about it being heavy and the ceremony being long. Rebecca's chuppah doesn't look heavy, so I would assume there was no problem in this instance, but I'm just not sure what to do. And if you are/did have chuppah-holders, who did you choose and why?