Christmas Disappointment

So this Christmas was the first that we could actually spend together (in the same state and all) but I ended up disappointed because of the man cold. Let me preface this by saying that we do not currently live together.


He comes over from visiting his mom on Christmas Eve. So from that time till the last time we saw each other, it has been 1.5 wks (between his work schedule then taking off to see his mom 4 hours away). He comes over and he has a cold.
On Christmas I wake up and start cooking and he sets up in the bedroom and basically watches tv on his tablet all day and took a nap. I was ok for the most part cause I was cooking. My daughter came home around 3pm and we have dinner and open presents then he returns to the room. My daughter even tries to get him out of the room but he said he didn’t want to get anyone sick. ITS JUST A COLD!!!!!! But he gets up and goes to work the next day.
I’m just disappointed that our first Christmas together was crap and the highlight was my kid coming home cause then I didn’t feel alone on Christmas.
I hate the man cold and I’m just holding my tongue for now cause it’s not worth fighting over at the moment. I will get a “sorry” but that won’t change anything. I will address it when I’m not so in my feelings.
That’s my rant.