My mom really wants my dad and I to do a father/daughter dance where we actually do something other than sway for 5 minutes. I'm pretty indifferent and have no preference other than not playing a sappy song that will cause everyone in the room to cry. I'm receptive to doing something like a swing dance routine.
Talking to my fiance, he and his mom plan on just doing the standing and swaying during their Mother/Son dance. Would it be inappropriate for me and my dad to do something choreographed that may steal some spotlight? I worry that his mom might get upset because it seems like something she'd love to do with her son, but he's too introverted and shy for that sort of thing.