Looking for some tips/advice, anything will help! We got engaged back in December, and at first we just enjoyed the moment and didn't rush right into wedding planning. Finally in February we started looking into venues, I majorly overwhelmed myself which has caused nothing but stress for me in this process. Everyone always talks about enjoying the process, and so far I have not, but wish that I could start. I have toured a ton of venues, and without exaggerating I mean over 30+. Unless I am decided on something & strongly opinionated on it I tend to be a bit indecicive. I have decided on my wedding party, colors, type of ceremony, type of meals, etc.; though I just can't pick a venue! I feel any of them could be perfect for our wedding day!
As of now, I have it narrowed down to 4, but am having a hard time choosing between the 4. I tried taking dates into consideration; initially I was hoping for September 2021; though with Covid a lot of that has been impacted. I also am slightly nervous, I do not want to put myself in the place that the poor 2020 brides have been put into, I can't imagine being in their place right now! So I am nervous if 2021 will be a definite, or if I should just bump out to 2022 to be safe. I really want to be able to have all of our guests, and am hoping for minimal restrictions. However 2022 is so far away, and I want my grandmother to be a part of my day, though she is getting older. So bottom line I am so overwhelmed and confused with what I want, please help! I am hoping once this decision is made I know to approach decisions differently and will be able to enjoy and not overwhelm myself with the remainder of the planning process!
