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Bee
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Choose a seat, not a side sign or an usher

Bee, on September 27, 2016 at 1:57 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 22

The guests at our wedding are pretty heavily uneven (my family is out of the country) and in order to keep the number of guests pretty even on both sides of the aisle, we're trying to figure out the best solution. Should we have an usher or should we do a sign? Unfortunately, based on recent...

The guests at our wedding are pretty heavily uneven (my family is out of the country) and in order to keep the number of guests pretty even on both sides of the aisle, we're trying to figure out the best solution. Should we have an usher or should we do a sign? Unfortunately, based on recent weddings in our circle, letting people evenly distribute between seats themselves wasn't successful so it'll have to be one or the other.

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  • PennyIA
    Dedicated October 2016
    PennyIA ·
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    Not having any ushers and enough guests are old school enough to try to pick sides. I chose a simple sign "Pick a seat, not a side" without the cutsie extras or trying to rhyme. We also have reserved seat tags for immediate family members.

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  • Future Mrs. Moore
    Dedicated October 2017
    Future Mrs. Moore ·
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    I'm having the sign that says "we're all family here once the knot is tied so pick a seat and not a side" and have been to plenty of weddings with it and with at least 200 guests and it was fine. I think an usher is pointless

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