My fiancé and I are of Chinese decent and my family is super traditional where as his is more relaxed. We live in Orlando Florida and there's not much available as far as a traditional Chinese banquet but we still want to honor our traditions and do a tea ceremony before the western ceremony I'm struggling with timelines... if I should cram everything in one day or do a two day process and possibly have to pay for photographer/video both days and hair and make up... has anyone incorporated or planned a Asian-American wedding???