Hi all! My FH (Filipino) and I (Chinese) want to have a tea ceremony the day of our wedding and need help with planning our timeline!
Ideally, we want to have the tea ceremony earlier in the day with our parents, grandparents, aunts/uncles. For our ceremony, we are doing it with just our immediate family, so no aunts/uncles. And obviously, our reception will be much bigger with everyone! We want to have the tea ceremony and honor my Chinese culture and really, none of my siblings/cousins have had one, so I want to also do it for my family. BUT we also don’t want all of our family, who we aren’t close with, at the ceremony. We really want to have it be a private intimate moment and then the party w everyone.
Help please! How do I get this all done? And not upset people?!