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Abby
VIP March 2019

Childcare Wording Help!

Abby, on December 4, 2018 at 3:09 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 20
I would love to be able to invite all children but unfortunately due to space restrictions we just can't do it. We are going to provide childcare for children under 10 to help with space. Dinner and activities will be provided for them. This has been done several times in weddings in my social circle so please no comments on how I shouldn't do this. Kids will be in the same building and maybe even let out after dinner.

My question is how to go about letting parents know about this? I thought of putting in an extra insert with invitations to families affected but not quite sure on wording. Thought of something like this? Thoughts and suggestions appreciated!

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Latest activity by Colleen, on December 5, 2018 at 12:02 AM
  • Abby
    VIP March 2019
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    Oops forgot picture.

    Childcare Wording Help! 1
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  • Colleen
    Master September 2019
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    I am confused on how or saves money if kids are there. You still have to feed them.j am fine and get wanting childcare.
    i would put 10 and over wedding. Childcare will be provide on site for children under 10..
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  • Colleen
    Master September 2019
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    NM sorry saw it was space. I thought you said money.
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  • Abby
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    It's not a money thing. It's a space thing. I can't seat all of them in the room. Otherwise I'd be more than happy to have all of them. This would cut out about 25-30 seats.
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  • Colleen
    Master September 2019
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    As a childcare teacher make sure they are CPR certified. Also see if the sitters provide games and crafts in not you can get some stuff at dollar store. Sorry saw it was for space,
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  • Abby
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    No worries! Thanks for the advice and ideas!
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    A lot of parents won't leave their children with someone they have never met before. Don't worry about finding babysitting and trust that parents can figure out care for their own children. If anyone, maybe someone from out of town, actually reaches out to you for help, then find someone. Don't add one more thing to your plate.
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  • Jane
    Expert May 2019
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    I think it's a great idea... parents can choose whether to take you up on it or have their cherub stay with grandma
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  • Abby
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    Fortunately in this situation most of the people whose kids would need to be with the childcare workers have been babysat by them before. These are mostly church kids and the people I want to hire do a lot of childcare for the church so this is something I want to do.
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  • Jenna
    Super October 2019
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    We are doing the exact same thing! We're sending out save the dates next month and our plan is include an insert with them and another insert with invites (only to families who are affected by it). We will only include the parents' names on the envelope and the inserts will say something like:

    We will be providing childcare at the venue for children under 10. More details to follow. Please reach out to Jenna at (phone number) for any additional information.

    And when the invites go out, maybe something like this:

    We will be providing childcare at the venue for children under 10. The sitters will be CPR certified and there will be dinner and activities provided for the children. Please contact Jenna at (phone number) by (RSVP date) if __________ will be utilizing the childcare.

    This is all rough wording but maybe will give you an idea. Also, we have talked to several people in the family about this and everyone is on board so far, especially because they'll be just down the hall and the parents can pop in there any time. If not, they're welcome to find their own childcare, but we're trying to make it easier on guests with children to attend.

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  • MrsD
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    I would assume most parents won't utilize this, since it sounds like it's in another room than the actual wedding? I'd put an insert card to parents with kids with information. Something like "Due to limited space, we can't extend invitations to all children of the adults on our guest list. We are providing childcare from company XXX and the company will provide dinner and activities. Please let me know if you are interested in utilizing this service." If it were me, I'd just find a sitter I knew/trusted for my kids.

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  • Abby
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    Those are some helpful ideas! Thank you! It's too late to include it with save the dates but you did help me with some wording for the invitation insert!
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  • Abby
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    Same building but yes, different room. Most of the kids on the list have been babysat by the people I'd like to hire before so I think more would utilize it than not. I just wanted to give them the option. Thanks for the ideas.
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  • MrsD
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    That's good! I think saying the name of the company is great for sure. We are hiring childcare professionals but the room is open to the reception space and it's optional if they want to use it or not. It's super nice you are offering it!

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  • Mrs. Cohen
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    Although we didn't allow any children at all at our wedding, I don't think this is such a bad idea.

    My opinion on wording is something like this, "Your little ones will have fun together with childcare on the premises, while you have fun letting loose during our day of celebration". OR, "While we love your little ones, we've arranged for childcare on the venue premises so that you and your little ones can each have your own fun celebrating love!"

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  • Andrew
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    I agree naming the company is a great idea. Also, use the word Because. There is a psychology principle that people are more willing to accept things when given a reason.


    Because of limited space in the dining area, complimentary childcare from ABC Sitters will be provided onsite.

    RSVP:

    Name_________ Number of Adults:_______ Number of Children: __________

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  • Abby
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    Oh I like those! Thanks for the ideas!
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  • Abby
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    That is a good idea! That would keep people from asking me why we're doing that or thinking it's just cause I don't want the kids in there.
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  • Tracey & Dr. Julian
    Devoted August 2019
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    I am having children at my wedding as well and will provide day care. I plan and having separate information in the invitation that will entail all details such as certified child care provider on site.
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  • Colleen
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    Can you maybe have the workers right a bio. I work child care and done this a lot. Something like this.
    My name is Colleen. I have worked in childcare for 18 years. I am Currently trained in CPR,First aide and communications disease. I am nearly finished getting my CDA. I love singing and dancing with the children. I am looking forward to dancing to baby shark and many other songs with your children.
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