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Peggy
Beginner June 2018

Cherish your time together!

Peggy, on February 17, 2021 at 11:55 AM

Posted in Married Life 47

My wonderful husband and I were married on June 30, 2018. We used Wedding Wire as our organizer. We had a beautiful wedding with beloved family and friends present. Even though it was the second wedding for both of us, and we both were sixty years old, it was the best time in both our lives! My...

My wonderful husband and I were married on June 30, 2018. We used Wedding Wire as our organizer. We had a beautiful wedding with beloved family and friends present. Even though it was the second wedding for both of us, and we both were sixty years old, it was the best time in both our lives! My husband and I both worked 60+ hours a week. However, when covid hit, he began working at home on March 16, 2020 and I was furloughed on the same date. We spent 24/7 together, unlike in our past eight years of being together because we both worked. We became closer, talked more, and our relationship elevated to a much higher and loving level. I fell in love with him even more. It was great! Covid was good for us! We had a family vacation planned in October 2020. We went to Gatlinburg, TN joining six other family members there. On the last day of our vacation and during our drive home, my husband became ill. I brought him to the Mayo Clinic in Jackonsville, FL. He had emergency surgery. I waited in our vehicle in the parking lot for hours and hours waiting for that call to come. Finally the doctor called, said all is well, he is in recovery, and that covid rules were just changed so I can soon join him in his room and stay there with him for five days while he recovered. I called everyone to say he is all right! My husband text me to bring his things up to his room. I got them together and walked over to the hospital. A nurse was waiting for me. By time I had walked over there, she said he had a seizure and they were intubating him. After an hour of resuscitation efforts, they could not bring him back. I lost my husband! We were happily married only 846 days. My message to all of you is to cherish every moment you have together, because you never know when God will call one of you home. I lost my husband 3.5 months ago, and it still feels like yesterday. I still feel like I got married yesterday. We were blessed in having those last eight months of closeness together.
Thank you for reading my story.

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  • Kaysey
    Super February 2020
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    I am so sorry for your loss! Thank you for sharing your story Smiley heart

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  • Kari
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    I am so so sorry for your loss. It must still feel so raw.

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  • Reena
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    Hugs! I’m so sorry for your loss.
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  • Peggy
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    Thank you Cassidy Smiley heart

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  • Peggy
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    Thank you Jo, it has been rough. Smiley heart

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  • Christina
    Savvy June 2021
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    Sorry 😢 praying for strength and Healing God bless ❤️ you honey
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  • Elle
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    I'm so sorry for your loss! I'm so glad you shared so many happy moments together, though there are never enough. My heart breaks for you having to lose him so soon. Thank you for sharing your story and this reminder to remember what really matters. Smiley heart

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  • Pauline
    Just Said Yes March 2022
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    So sorry for your loss. Life is so unpredictable but what time you spent together was beautiful and worth a thousand lifetimes. Wishing you peace and healing...
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  • Jamie
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    This was beautiful and heartbreaking at the same time. I’m so very sorry for your loss. You have beautiful memories of a time you were blessed with to enjoy and take part in an amazing love. The hurt never goes away but the memories will help make it easier to cope day by day. Thank you for sharing.
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  • Cynthia
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    I'm so sorry for loss. Praying for you ❤️
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  • Meghan
    Just Said Yes December 2025
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    So very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story.
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    I am so sorry for your loss... I wish there was something more comforting to say. Thank you for sharing your story.
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  • MIWM
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    I am so deeply sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers

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  • Peggy
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    Thank you so much Cassidy.

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  • Peggy
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    Thank you for your prayers.

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  • Peggy
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    Life is short. I never took that seriously until now. Thank you for your thoughts.

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  • Peggy
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    Thank you. I never realized how precious time is until now.

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  • Peggy
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    Thank you Cynthia

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  • Peggy
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    Thank you Jamie. It is the most diffiult time of my life.

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    Thank you Pauline. It is hard for me to accept that this was God's plan, as many people have told me. I will cherish our time together.

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