Thoughts on having nicer gold charger plates at our reception table settings, with a colored cloth napkin and printed buffet menu, but instead of completing the setting with china and glassware, using caterer provided disposable serveware. We are on a tight budget but are attempting to have a formal-er feeling wedding. I love the look of chargers, but am not sure if it is OK to pair them with less formal plates. Have any of y'all done this? Any suggestions?