Like many others it is is looking like our wedding scheduled for this summer is going to have to be postponed due to COVID-19. We are weighing a few options and I would love some input, especially from brides in similar positions or those that have been.
We are in our mid-30s and planned our wedding to happen very quickly after the proposal to start having babies. Now that we likely have to postpone at least a year we are trying to figure out our best backup plan. I have no issue having a baby before getting married but I also don't really want to wait multiple years to get married (I feel like if we wait too long our priorities might change in terms of money and time and a wedding would be less likely to happen). So, we are thinking about postponing 1-1.5 years and either trying to have a baby immediately (so we could have an 3-6 month old at the time of the wedding) or waiting a bit to try so that we won't have a baby yet but I could be pregnant during the wedding. Anyone that has or planned to get married with an infant or pregnant have any thoughts about which would be a better option??? I want to be able to have fun at the wedding, I know both of these options are probably less fun than being non-pregnant with out kids but that would mean waiting longer than I feel comfortable to start trying. We also are considering doing a small thing on our original wedding date but I want the big party eventually, that's the fun part