My maid of honor have been friends more or less since we were about 10 years old; I'm 30 now. She's always been kind of different, seems like a rather insecure person and she is never satisfied where she goes in life. She puts up a lot of rules for herself whereas I'm more of a go-with-the-flow kind of personality. My fiance has never really cared for her all that much and my mom has always felt pretty iffy of her too. But it wasn't really until my bachelorette party that I had this past weekend that I saw her in a completely new light.
I caught her in a lie several times, and also she was really drunk and she got angry at me for trying to give her water. She also got upset about losing her card (which she lost 3 times total during the course of the evening), and she kept insisting I had it when I didn't. When she was crying I was trying to comfort her and she actually pushed me away, and told me not to call her "honey," because that's what I do when I am trying to comfort someone.
The next day, I tried to talk to her again and she said she thought I was being annoying and insisted that I refused to find her card. She wouldn't cancel her card like I told her to (we were in VEGAS), and she had backup cards anyway. I tried to lighten the mood and she was not having it. Also, she apologized for pushing me, but it was the most insincere apology.
Now it's nearly been 4 days and I am still deeply bothered by her behavior since she's supposed to be my maid of honor! When she was sober, she'd ask me questions like, "If X were to leave you at the altar, how would he do it?"
I'm getting married in 2 weeks now and I'm like... I need advice here. I honestly feel like I'm over it. My fiance suggested I wait a week to make a decision but I feel like I know, but it feels so complicated with the wedding so soon. Help.
