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Just Said Yes April 2016

Change of location etiquette

Susan, on April 17, 2016 at 4:48 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 11

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We were invited to a wedding and a couple of weeks before the wedding, the location was changed. The way we found out was our son in law thru a phone call we made to him regarding something else. It was "oh by the way" type. And we were told they would get the address to us. Wedding day came and we never got new address. Should we have called to get this info or should the bride and groom or someone called us to give us this info? We are being told we should have called to get this info if we wanted to come(we had already sent back our rsvp saying we would attend).

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Latest activity by BlueHenBride, on April 17, 2016 at 6:58 PM

Super April 2017
ENG · on April 17, 2016 at 4:50 PM
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That is the weirdest thing ever. The couple should have 100% made the change clear to guests.
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VIP August 2016
Ololufe · on April 17, 2016 at 4:51 PM
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Thats so weird. They should have called you. Or sent out a note in the mail.
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VIP September 2016
MrsInSeptember · on April 17, 2016 at 5:30 PM
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Definitely lacking in communication on their behalf!
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Master October 2015
MrsA · on April 17, 2016 at 5:40 PM
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Unbelievable. Yes, they should have notified everyone planning on attending the wedding directly.
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Master May 2016
Jacqui76 · on April 17, 2016 at 5:41 PM
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Of course they should have reached out to all the invited guests, especially the ones who had already rsvp'd that they were coming. There is no way that should have been your responsibility.
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Devoted January 2017
GabyJuly · on April 17, 2016 at 5:42 PM
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That is definitely not your responsibility as a guest. Completely on the wedding hosts to be getting out that information.

ETA: spelling
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Master October 2017
RealLindseyO · on April 17, 2016 at 5:43 PM
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That's definitely rude that they didn't notify you of the location change. While I agree they should have gotten the information to you, you could have mentioned it to your son in law that you still didn't receive the new address.
But I definitely think it's ridiculous to change the location and not notify the guests!
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Just Said Yes April 2016
Susan · on April 17, 2016 at 6:48 PM
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Apparently we were the only guests not given the new location.
Agree we could have called, but to me, that feels wrong.
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Super June 2018
AnnaKay · on April 17, 2016 at 6:49 PM
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The bride and groom should reach out to all their guests to let them know about location change.
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Master January 2016
mimitrue · on April 17, 2016 at 6:51 PM
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Why would anyone call to see if the location has changed? That is just ridiculous. They should have called EVERYONE that rsvp'd to let them know. Didn't know you had to call and confirm they were still at the location on their invite LOL
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BlueHenBride · on April 17, 2016 at 6:58 PM
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They definitely should have called or mailed everyone who RSVP'd to notify their guests of the location change. Whether they did it personally or asked their parents and BP members to help get through the guest list, you should have been contacted with the new address.
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