Ceremony placement

How old is the older step daughter? Maybe she can be a junior bridesmaid and stand at the end next to bridesmaid #4?

Or just move them down to fit all 3. This way she isn’t blocking anyway.

View Quoted Comment Hi she's 18. I didn't know if she would be upset being not up front.

View Quoted Comment You don't think she'll block 1 and 2? She's tall.

Have you asked her what she'd like? If she's 18, I probably wouldn't put her in the front line with the little girls, I would line her up with the other adults.

View Quoted Comment Would you put her as first next to me or at end?

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I think you could put her at the end - indeed, depending on the ages of the little girls, you could even have her helping them (if she's that kind of person). The fact that she's a BM demonstrates that she's important to you, and she's not the MOH, who would normally stand next to you, so I think you're good. (I hope that made any sense at all lol)

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I would put her at the end - your MOH usually stands next to you (and holds your bouquet during the ceremony)

View Quoted Comment Oh gotcha. If she’s tall, maybe you can put her on the end. I’d say at rehearsal or before try it out and see which works best for her placement.

View Quoted Comment Certainly. Thanks 😊

I would either put her on the end next to BM #4, or she can stand next to your fiance (who I am assuming is her father). That might be nice for her to stand next to her dad.

Keep your MOH standing next to you, and maybe place her second in line or at the end.....?

But what you could do is also ask her opinion as to potentially where she would like and feel comfortable to stand. You can show her the diagram(s) with the position(s) where she could be and see which placement she prefers.