I just need some advice, me and my husband got married in the court house.. we still want to have a wedding to were his family and mine could attend but idk what to go about calling it, a vow renewal or just celebrate of our love and before anyone tries to bite my head off for asking this, we did this because he's in the military and he had left the country for 2 years and we didn't have time for a big beautiful wedding now that he is coming back we want to celebrate with the family we don't want any of the bachelor bachelorette parties or gifts we just want our two families to be able to come to something and celebrate