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Kelsey
Savvy December 2018

Cell Phone Free Ceremony Question

Kelsey, on December 3, 2017 at 7:16 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 11

Hi there! Our December 2018 ceremony will be taking place at dusk, with low lighting and lots of candles. We've been going back and forth on having a "technology free" ceremony--not so much because I care about people taking pictures, but more the cell phone/camera lights and screens obstructing our professional photos and ambiance. Has anyone else run into this? Did you put a sign out before the reception? What wording would you use? thanks ladies!

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Latest activity by laura, on December 4, 2017 at 10:19 AM
  • Trevor
    Savvy January 2019
    Trevor ·
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    I plan to have our officiant mention that the ceremony is unplugged

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  • muriel
    Champion June 2018
    muriel ·
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    Have your officiant ask people to refrain from taking pictures during the ceremony. Tell them they are free to take all the pics they want after the recessional.

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  • FinallyaRoy17
    VIP October 2017
    FinallyaRoy17 ·
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    Our officiant told everyone it was a unplugged wedding. Everyone did great and didnt take any pictures during the ceremony. She asked them all nicely to put them away and to turn them vibrate.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Do everything; a sign, have your ushers tell people as they seat the, have your officiant announce it.

    This is what I say, before the processional starts;

    Unplugged, if you want to include this;

    Welcome to you all tonight ! Melanie and Richie would just love it if you all would take these few seconds to silence your phones and put your cameras away so our fabulous photographers can capture the memories of the ceremony. The best wedding gift you can give them is to be fully present and enjoy the moments. Thank you.

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  • Adriana
    Expert October 2017
    Adriana ·
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    I had our officiant mention it, I put a sign, and mentioned it in our programs. We said something along the lines of wanting everyone to be present with us while we shared in this special moment. And at the very end, after we were pronounced husband and wife, our officiant announced people could take photos.

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  • FutureMrsAJ
    Just Said Yes June 2019
    FutureMrsAJ ·
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    Our wedding is unplugged, we're having a photographer and I want not one, single picture ruined cause they wanted a picture of something that's already gonna be taken...now the reception, I'm okay with them having cellphones and cameras but the ceremony is a "no tech" ceremony

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  • Constance
    VIP October 2017
    Constance ·
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    We had signage and mentioned it in our program. We also had it on our website. We told our officiant to mention it if he saw camera and phones, but no one had them out. My friend heard someone saying they were going to take pictures anyway and my friend called that person out. On the whole everyone honored it.

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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
    Mrsbdg ·
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    We were so "sign"-ed out by the time we realized we wanted an unplugged ceremony. We asked our officiant to announce it at the beginning of the ceremony and most people respected our wishes.

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  • Paul S Robinson
    Paul S Robinson ·
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    Sign, sign, everywhere a sign, the cellphone, breakin' my mind

    Do this, be unplugged, don't do that, (use) keep your cell phone and tablet offline, can't you read the sign? We are all so very much a visual society so I would recommend signs in as many places you can place them so your guests will get the message. Then ask your officiant to ask that all cell phones and tablets remain off during your ceremony.

    I wish you well and many years of happiness.


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  • Paul S Robinson
    Paul S Robinson ·
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    Sign, sign, everywhere a sign, the cellphone, breakin' my mind

    Do this, be unplugged, don't do that, (use) keep your cell phone and tablet offline, can't you read the sign? We are all so very much a visual society so I would recommend signs in as many places you can place them so your guests will get the message. Then ask your officiant to ask that all cell phones and tablets remain off during your ceremony.

    I wish you well and many years of happiness.


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  • laura
    Expert June 2017
    laura ·
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    We had our officiant ask nicely to put away phones and camera for the ceremony

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