Celebrate

We are full steam ahead with everything. Our resort in the keys has Covid restrictions in place, but we all have no problems adhering to them. We'll have about 35 guests in total.

I went full steam ahead with my wedding last month, but a lot of brides are postponing their reception until their anniversary.

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I'm glad you got to do the whole thing Margaret. It's a headache trying to switch everything.

Molly, we decided to postpone it not just due to COVID but also because it was a quick reset and not everyone will be able to come. So we really want to be able to give everyone a chance to be okay with traveling and getting their plans together as well. And it will also give us more time to save up again.

My minimony is in January, and we're having a formal dinner after the ceremony with some traditional reception elements (first dance, cake cutting, etc.), but my FH and I are still on the fence about having a full-blown reception at a later time. What are you doing immediately following the minimony? Can you have a mini-party (although not a full reception on the beach) at that time?

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Honestly, we haven't really talked about it. We're getting a 1 tier cake and having some champagne with our 10 guests right after in the same space that the wedding will be in, but other than that, no idea

We need to talk about it because the wedding is at 2pm and we're gonna need some dinner lol

Guess I'll have to ask our planner about where we can get something to take back to our room.

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I think for us, the key is nearly every guest is an "essential" worker. None of us have taken time off since Covid began and the one thing we've noted from all our guests, THEY ARE READY to get out there and travel again. I'm not gonna lie, I was surprised by the number of "yes" RSVPs we got, I really didn't think we'd have as many as we do. But I also believe it's a true testament to what being cooped up in a house is for so long and just finally needing something positive to look forward to.

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Yes!! You gotta eat! Would it be possible to pull a dinner together with your 10 guests on the evening of your ceremony or sometime during your wedding weekend? I know it's not a full reception, but a brunch or dinner with your guests would allow you to continue the party -- even if just a little bit. And even if you're not actually on the beach, you could find a restaurant with awesome views. Just a thought. Your wedding planner may be able to work some magic and suggest some ideas to continue the celebration. A lot of us (engaged couples) are making concessions given the circumstances, but I'm a firm believer in finding an alternate way to celebrate even when our original plans don't work out.

Our minimony is tomorrow with about 35guests and my family will provide dinner for everyone immediately after. Our big wedding is in March where we expect 100+ guests (if allowed). That is where I will wear my big dress, have our bridal party etc. The wedding tomorrow is just our closest family and friends.

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Wow! Congrats Yasmine! I'm sure everything will be wonderful for you tomorrow.

I'm looking forward to our day and I'm not too bummed out that everyone won't physically be there. We had originally wanted something small and intimate anyway. I am warming up to the idea of having an anniversary bash a year later though. I think it will be so much fun and after all everyone has been through, it will be great for all of us to get together to celebrate. We'll have that much more to be thankful for.

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At this point, I just don't have it in me for any extra planning. If my mom or auntie puts something together for us, of course we won't turn it down. If not, I'm sure we'll find something tasty or we'll just have to finish off the cake and crash after the sugar rush lol

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I completely understand and don't blame you one bit. LOL! Planning can be draining . . . but now's the time to enjoy the fruits of your labor. Congratulations and many blessings on your upcoming wedding!

View Quoted Comment Thank you so much and I wish you two the best 😍

I’m having an intimate micro wedding on November 7th and we’re not having a reception either. With all the Covid restrictions it literally took the fun out of celebrating and I don’t want to celebrate without really getting a chance to dance, drink, eat and be merry. Me and the FH decided we’re not going to do a celebration later either, we want to use our anniversaries as travel time together. I am looking into brunch on Sunday for the family since it’s just going to be us. I’m still undecided on it. But I’m over planning with all the rearranging. I’m just ready to be hitched to my Sugar.

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Thank you Sharonda!

Congratulations and blessings for you and your marriage as well!!!

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I hear you Jamie - all this planning and replanning is exhausting. But I'm sure we'll all find a way to kick up our heels in the long run.

A brunch sounds nice, depending on the number of people. I'm still not sold on the whole social distancing dining experience so maybe just my immediate family at my mom's or something. IDK

I'm like you right about now - I'm just ready!

View Quoted Comment I’m not sold on the Social Distanced dining experience either that’s why I kicked the whole reception idea to the curb. I’m sure we’ll have a beautiful day reception or not❤️