I've never been in a good relationship with my dad. He wasn't the nicest when we were kids and although he is doing better, he is still a toxic person. Even my fiance doesn't like him. He's really negative and I don't want him to start drama and ruin out special day.
On the other hand I love my mum to death. She is the sweetest and kindest bubble of light in my life. I can't imagine being married with out her there.
Now here's the kicker. They have been happily married for 30 years. This decision would be so easy if they were separated, but they are still together. I talked to mum about it and she said if I don't invite dad she won't be able to come.
I feel so stuck. She really wants to be there at our big day. My dad doesn't seem like he cares at all. if I don't invite him he's going to through a fit and she is going to have to deal with him at home. I feel like I'm going to have regrets no matter what decision I make.
I don't know what to do.