Catfish

Wow that's really horrible ! I would 100% feel like maybe he's been doing that or cheated before then if that's the case

We would definitely need a serious talk! I would wonder who else he'd been conversing like that with.

Hmm, that's from a TV "reality" show. I don't believe any of them represent anything that happened in real life.

I wouldnt do it in the first place... for a few reasons. 1) If you do this, its either a horrible joke or you dont trust the person. 2) if it's because you dont trust them, why are you with them? If the trust is gone, the relationship isnt far behind.

Thats just as bad as having a friend try to set up your spouse to see if they would cheat. It's immature and clearly there's much bigger issues there. If a guy did that (trick) to me, I'd dump him asap.

I mean, that's messed up on HER part, as well.

That said, I'd be in jail, because I'm fairly sure you can't divorce the person you cause to be dead...

In all seriousness, that sounds like a terribly unhealthy relationship, everyone involved would benefit from some therapy and boundaries, and perhaps not being together.

That sounds like she had reason to try this. However, if you go looking for trouble, you’re bound to find it.

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THIS. if you don't trust them, don't be with them!

View Quoted Comment I agree that it's a horrible thing to do.

View Quoted Comment My mind would also wonder.

View Quoted Comment Actually the story is from a popular YouTuber, not the show Catfish. I just used the imaging.

View Quoted Comment I can understand your perspective.

View Quoted Comment I agree that it's immature.

View Quoted Comment I do think the wife in this situation was wrong.

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I wouldn't have to catfish anyone because I pick up on things like that right away even if I'm not trying. And yes. To me, it is considered cheating if he is entertaining other women. Should she have opened that particular can of worms? No. She may have thought it was the perfect idea to catch him because she was unsure. My fiancé and I have a "one strike" rule in our relationship; mess up one time, and I walk and vice versa. Not three, not seven, ONE. We are too old to be playing stupid games like that. "Don't look for what you aren't prepared to find".

I saw this video (if we're talking about the same one). Turns out he knew the whole time it was her, he was just going along with it, I guess to see what she'd do. I think the whole thing is stupid. Why was she doing it in the first place? There's no trust there if you think you need to test him. And him; they're YouTubers and have cameras all over their house (hence why he knew what she was doing), and he continued playing along after seeing that she was bawling her eyes out because she thought he was really cheating on her. Like, how can you continue doing something to someone you supposedly love when that thing is making them cry?

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I think making her womans intuition kicked in and she had a sneaking suspicion that he was up to something. She was right!

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I agree that the whole thing was silly, they were both wrong.

I think the woman who sneaked around in such a nasty way, to entrap her husband, is such a prize !!!!! that she deserves to have him immediately move out, and file to divorce her. It is not a harmless prank, any more than fraternity and sports team hazing. It is cruel, and a complete breach of the trust of marriage. Worse than his flirting, she planned the act of stabbing him in the back. She is the worst by far.