Carry my baby down the aisle?

I don't think that it would be weird, but I think the logistics of it would be more complicated than you think. Will you carry a 2 year old and a bouquet? What happens at the altar, will you just set him down? Hand him off to someone? How will he feel about that? Will he cry or throw a tantrum? If there's no one significant that you want to walk you down the aisle, I would choose to just walk alone.

I don’t think it would be weird but I would see what type of mood he’s in, think about who will be waiting at the end of the aisle to hold him etc. If it makes sense logistically it could be nice to include him in the wedding in that way. You could also walk yourself down the aisle if no one else seems to come to mind.

I agree with Caytlyn that the logistics are complicated. You mentioned that you're cool with your ceremony being non-traditional. Have you considered having your FH walk with you? Or are you really wanting him to be at the front of the aisle waiting for you when you come in? If he walked with you he could carry your child, or the two of you could just walk in alone and have other arrangements for your child. There's also nothing wrong with walking alone. You have plenty of time to think it over and decide what option suits you best.

RESPONSE TO ALL: I guess I was thinking I’d carry the bouquet and the baby, and hand him off to my mother in law, at the end. He’s not my fiancé’s biological child, we met while I was pregnant. And he plans to adopt him after we wed. I don’t like the idea of walking alone, and I don’t like the idea of walking with my fiancé. I want to see him see me for the first time walking down the isle. And I guess as a back up I would walk alone if he was in a mood.

Is there anyone on FH side that could walk you that you’d be comfortable with? His dad or a brother?

If you try to carry a 2 year old, it could end up that your FH can’t even see you. 2 year olds are extremely fidgety and that could take away from the moment you’re looking for. Could you walk hand in hand with your son instead of carrying him?

If I were you I'd ask a friend to walk with me

When my sister got married she had her son walk her. He had just turned four and it was very special. I think carrying would be more difficult for you but if your baby is able to walk while holding your hand I think that would be very sweet. If you were to carry him that may take away from your FH seeing you for the first time and he’ll be blocking you a bit.

On the other hand, I am walking alone but my FH will meet me halfway where we will walk the rest of the way together.

Can you snd your fiance walk down the aisle together?

How did this turn out? I am a Catholic and I will be marrying a Muslim this February...we too are choosing a non-denominational wedding. We are having the ceremony at the same place we are having the reception and habong6ot officiated by a Justice of the Peace. Just a nice short and sweet ceremony....I am only having my sister as by Bridesmaid, and my 13 yr old daughter as my Maid of Honor. My FH and I have a son who will be 10 mos. old in Feb. I was thinking of having my mother carry him down the aisle with her when she gets seated before the ceremony actually starts....what did you end up doing? Is this idea ok?

I hope your wedding day turned out to be everything you envisioned, filled with love and happiness for your growing family.