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Beginner April 2019

Caring about everyone’s opinions!

Ashley, on March 2, 2019 at 10:41 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 3
Hi Everyone!

I wanted to create a discussion about people’s opinions, because when it comes to planning your wedding ... there are a lot of opinions and I was honestly starting to let them get to my head.

I’m not one to make a decision without asking for ones opinion. I always need some reassurance before purchasing something or making a decision. My family is very important to me, and so is my fiancées family. I wanted to make decisions with everyone’s approval, especially the approval of my parents and his parents. I find that sometimes it works... and sometimes it doesn’t.

Throughout wedding planning I have felt so much stress... but now 2 months before the wedding I am FINALLY not letting anything or anyone get into my head. The decisions that I make with my fiancée are for a reason... it’s because we both agree with something or like it ... so that’s how we are going to proceed. It’s our wedding day and we don’t care if people don’t agree with everything we do, or like things that we buy... it’s whatever makes us both happy!

Just a note to all the brides and grooms out there... don’t let ones opinion affect how you live your life! Listen to it, appreciate it and keep it in the back of your head ... but NEVER let it affect your decisions. Your wedding day is YOUR day.. not anyone else’s!

Happy Planning! Xoxo

3 Comments

Latest activity by MIWM, on March 4, 2019 at 7:34 PM
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    Super November 2019
    Melissa ·
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    I think since you're new to WW, you might not know this but everytime one of these "share your wedding opinions" posts come by, it doesnt end well. I know you mean well, but these posts always start out great and respectful, and then someone has to ruin it by calling other people rude who disagree with them and so forth. Hopefully this one doesnt end up like that.
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  • Tara
    Master May 2020
    Tara ·
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    Thanks for your words of encouragement. I’ve had to be very discreet with my wedding plans because of not wanting to hear others’ negative opinions.
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  • MIWM
    VIP June 2019
    MIWM ·
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    I swear weddings bring out the worst in people. People keep telling me what I should and should not be doing. It's frustrating !

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